Tuesday 5 June 2018

2018-April - Mistresses of Cliveden by Natalie Livingstone


Mistresses of Cliveden by Natalie Livingstone
The author is the current owner of Cliveden House, now a hotel. The grounds have been sold to the National Trust. The Duchess of Sussex spent the night there before her marriage in 2018.

Amount of text per person gets fatter as you progress but I thought it was a knowledge dump at the beginning then more... Many books are this way, but of course if you are researching a topic you find out everything that you can and make notes and then put them into context. Then when you have finished you can you edit the story into a reasonable tale, which didn't happen in this case. It was commented that we seem to know a great deal about the life and times of some of these people considering that it was 300 years ago. The story of each woman would make a book by itself.

Some of us were only able to read it in bits. MM said that when she realised that she had a week to read 500 pages, she had to sit down and make sure that she read 70 pages a day. Both MM and LS ended up 'skim' reading it. PM didn't finish it, and LW didn't have time to read it with the current complexities of her life. Of those that did finish it, they marked it as an 8.

It was not an easy read, but we learnt a lot.  The book flowed well and gave a good picture of the times and people.The making of connections between generations was done very well. Using George Bernard Shaw was a good example of this.

Here are some comments from the discussion:

Love the descriptions of Buckingham
Cliveden burnt down twice, but the first mistress never dot to see it or live there. 

Elisabeth (Mistress of William of Orange) didn't stick in memory
Mothers kept getting pregnant, then children looked after by wet nurses until time to send them to boarding school, so mothers didn't see much of their children.

Augusta (1792) wrote to american women about slavery. There was a recent television program about slavery where this was mentioned(?)
The Sutherland family was terrible to crofters. Harriet, Duchess of Sutherland also featured in the TV series 'Victoria' as Albert's brother fancied her.

Nancy Astor had five children. Her quotations were quite fascinating. She had a kind and tolerant husband.
- idea of labour push for social care, but the wealthy had an obligation to do it at will: ref Sunlight, Saltaire, quakers(Clarks)
Nancy Astors servant Rose also wrote a memoir.
There was a bit of discussion about Nancy Astor and the Christian Science cult.

A key role noted in the book was Mistress of the Robes. It must have been very hard work. (Which Mistress was this?)

MS and MM liked Lady Astor the least of the women.





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